by Louis Koster | Jan 9, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to be happy, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Self improvement, Selfhelp, Spirituality
Sometimes you find yourself in the company of people who are not fully disclosing their intentions, or it occurs to you that they bring an undisclosed agenda to the conversation. Another way of saying this is that the person appears to you as “inauthentic.” This tends...
by Louis Koster | Jan 9, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to be happy, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Selfhelp, Spirituality
In our lives unexpected things happen. People disappoint us. You may even have been taken advantage of. How do you deal with such an experience? How do you stay true to yourself? In a new language for life, you relate to someone as the possibility of being. Any strong...
by Louis Koster | Jan 8, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, Louis Koster, Self improvement, Selfhelp, Spirituality
At times, someone’s mood tends to hook you, and you believe that you need to engage with it. This may be a person close to you—a relative or your partner. If you were to contemplate not engaging with someone’s mood, you may experience a loss of affinity and wonder...
by Louis Koster | Jan 3, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to be happy, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Selfhelp, Spirituality
The most important thing, the most difficult thing to do in a relationship, is to gather the courage to step out of the noise of “I” and relate to others as they ought to be. Living a new language for life, you realize that reacting to the way a person occurs to you...
by Louis Koster | Jan 2, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Selfhelp, Spirituality
It is easy when someone is upset to get caught up in the storm and at some point say things that you later regret. How do you stay centered? Where do you locate yourself? Sometimes I can be judgmental in my expressions, which evokes a similar response in the other...
by Louis Koster | Jan 2, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Selfhelp, Spirituality
Have you ever found yourself stuck in an argument, and you wonder how you got there? You wonder how you can get yourself unstuck while it is happening? Perhaps the most important and most difficult thing to realize in relationships is that a person’s behavior or...
