In our lives unexpected things happen. People disappoint us. You may even have been taken advantage of. How do you deal with such an experience? How do you stay true to yourself?

In a new language for life, you relate to someone as the possibility of being. Any strong reaction brings you back into the default language for life, the language of “I” versus “you.” You recognize and embrace your humanity when you are unexpectedly drawn into the language of “I.” You are compassionate with yourself and with the other person.

You realize that forgiveness is the only way to set yourself free and restore the integrity of your being. You realize that getting even is not the way to restore the space of being when something unwholesome happens in your life.

In a new language for life, you don’t have to get even.


Hi, Louis here, author of the inspiring book “A New Language for Life, Happy No Matter What!” Click here to get a free download of the book. Thanks for checking out my blog posts. If you really want to test your spiritual beliefs, try being a medical doctor in war zones. I’ve been involved as a spiritual teacher, medical doctor and coach in the self-help industry for over 25 years and have developed a number of skills in helping people to awaken to their true nature and live inspired lives. Here Is Who I Am & What I Believe.

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