by Louis Koster | Jan 9, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to be happy, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Selfhelp, Spirituality
Have you noticed that when you give your opinion to someone, even your best opinion, the opening for exploration in the conversation closes? I sometimes catch myself giving advice to people close to me about how to manage their lives when they are stuck or immobilized...
by Louis Koster | Jan 9, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Affirmations, Blog, Empowerment, Happiness, Louis Koster, Self improvement, Selfhelp, Spirituality
How do you respond when you discover things about people that are either embarrasing, unexpected, or inauthentic? A new language for life reveals being, and therefore reveals what is and what isn’t. Things become clear, not from a position of judgment or criticism,...
by Louis Koster | Jan 9, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to be happy, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Self improvement, Selfhelp, Spirituality
Sometimes you find yourself in the company of people who are not fully disclosing their intentions, or it occurs to you that they bring an undisclosed agenda to the conversation. Another way of saying this is that the person appears to you as “inauthentic.” This tends...
by Louis Koster | Jan 9, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, How to be happy, How to Improve Your Life, Louis Koster, Selfhelp, Spirituality
In our lives unexpected things happen. People disappoint us. You may even have been taken advantage of. How do you deal with such an experience? How do you stay true to yourself? In a new language for life, you relate to someone as the possibility of being. Any strong...
by Louis Koster | Jan 8, 2016 | A New Language for Life, Blog, Happiness, Louis Koster, Self improvement, Selfhelp, Spirituality
At times, someone’s mood tends to hook you, and you believe that you need to engage with it. This may be a person close to you—a relative or your partner. If you were to contemplate not engaging with someone’s mood, you may experience a loss of affinity and wonder...
