Sometimes when dealing with people you love, you have to let go of your self-righteousness and trust the unfolding of life, even if you see disaster on the horizon. Sometimes you have to let it go and realize that this is their spiritual journey.
Telling someone about the unfolding is not going to make any difference. People can’t be told or shown the truth in its essence. People need to move through their spiritual journey themselves. However, you can trust that there is something in a person’s essence that knows. What the person does with that knowledge is really up to him or her.
The gift is to allow a person to be in the unfolding circumstances of his or her life. This is where a person can grow uninterrupted.
The gift is to listen and let someone be. The gift is letting go of the “I” that wants to interfere, control, give advice, or express an opinion. You now notice that when “I” is transparent, the natural tendency is to let things be. Then something remarkable and unexpected happens. By allowing others to be, you create an opening for them to be free to be, and in that opening, the opportunity may arise for them to create a new dance for life.
Your journey is trusting who you are and allowing others to have their own unfolding in life.
ABOUT LOUIS KOSTER
Hi, Louis here, author of the inspiring book “A New Language for Life, Happy No Matter What!” Click here to get a free download of the book. Thanks for checking out my blog posts. If you really want to test your spiritual beliefs, try being a medical doctor in war zones. I’ve been involved as a spiritual teacher, medical doctor and coach in the self-help industry for over 25 years and have developed a number of skills in helping people to awaken to their true nature and live inspired lives. Here Is Who I am & What I Believe.
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There’s a favorite verse in the Bible that said don’t counsel fools and I abide by that rule because I’ve been broken before trying to help someone because I know several different variations of the outcome of that particular unwise decision so now I just let them have their inner voice guide them
To allow is a very freeing experience…add allowing oneself to be as we are too…bliss! Thank you
Let your spirit fly, Martha! Thank you for sharing yourself!
With love,
Louis.
Dear Louis, Thank you very much for your email with this reflexion that I got in the right moment of my life that I felt disappointed with all the people that I tried to help because they are loosing they spirituality or some of them just doesn’t have one.
Dear Amanda,
Lovely to hear from you, Amanda!
Thank you for sharing with me how this message speaks in your life.
You are a beautiful person.
I send you my love,
Louis
Thank you Louis. That is a message of wisdom and Love
Dear Irene,
Thank you so much for your very kind response.
I send you my love,
Louis
I just love this new article you send me about letting go and letting people unfold their own lives. Brilliant topic!
Wonderful to hear, Frances! I am thrilled that this article speaks to you! With lots of love, Louis
Wise words… Sometimes rather than spend energy in trying to improve others, that we should spend in improving ourselves.
Dear Maria,
Thank you for letting me know that that this post inspired you.
Improving yourself, really is allowing for who you are.
This is the greatest gift you can give yourself and others.
I love you,
Louis.
Thank you very much Louis for this simple yet profound and sacred lesson, penetrating as it does to the depths of ones being…..Much love