When you find yourself out of step in a relationship and the issues are repetitive and immobilizing, you tend to blame the other person. This usually strengthens the “stuckness” and does not leave you or the other person with a new opening for the relationship.

In a new language for life, rather than blaming the other person for the way things are, you now take responsibility for the dance of the relationship.

In taking responsibility for the dance of the relationship, you let each other be. You stop blaming each other for the breakdowns. You stop pointing fingers at each other.

By your willingness to take responsibility for the dance of the relationship, you create a new opening for the relationship and an opening for the other person to step into a new dance of the relationship—a dance that is more wholesome, contributing, and inspiring.


Hi, Louis here, author of the inspiring book “A New Language for Life, Happy No Matter What!” Click here to get a free download of the book. Thanks for checking out my blog posts. If you really want to test your spiritual beliefs, try being a medical doctor in war zones. I’ve been involved as a spiritual teacher, medical doctor and coach in the self-help industry for over 25 years and have developed a number of skills in helping people to awaken to their true nature and live inspired lives. Here Is Who I am & What I Believe.

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