At times, someone’s mood tends to hook you, and you believe that you need to engage with it. This may be a person close to you—a relative or your partner. If you were to contemplate not engaging with someone’s mood, you may experience a loss of affinity and wonder whether he or she still loves you or whether there is something wrong with the relationship.
By staying still and allowing a person to be, the “I” that is resisting the experience loses its hold on you. You bring grace to the relationship. You are now in a place of openness, where you are responsible for your experience of life. You start to experience more of a freedom to be in relationship to that person. You are now present to the possibility of being.
Being in a place where you are responsible for your experience of life now allows you to manifest your experience of life. You are now able to generate yourself inside of manifesting him or her as their true nature.
In a new language for life, you don’t have to be hooked be someone’s mood.
ABOUT LOUIS KOSTER
Hi, Louis here, author of the inspiring book “A New Language for Life, Happy No Matter What!” Click here to get a free download of the book. Thanks for checking out my blog posts. If you really want to test your spiritual beliefs, try being a medical doctor in war zones. I’ve been involved as a spiritual teacher, medical doctor and coach in the self-help industry for over 25 years and have developed a number of skills in helping people to awaken to their true nature and live inspired lives. Here Is Who I Am & What I Believe.
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Are you a psychic or something? You always manage to say what I’m feeling. I’m learning how to be more present in my interactions with people, and I noticed that once I remove emotions and acknowledge the real issue in a compassionate way, I get my message across, and in the process resolve any ongoing problem. Of course I still have someone that thinks he’s entitled to me doing everything for him and as long as it concerns me it doesn’t matter so of course I makhe’s own problems irrelevant.
Ha, Ha! You put a smile on my face, Toni!
Isn’t it great that when you do not allow yourself to be hooked by the “I,” that wants to lure you back into an argument – once you remove emotions and acknowledge the real issue as you call it – you get your message across, and in the process resolve any ongoing problem!
This is the true power of allowing that you are experiencing.
Check out my latest blog about “The Six Magic Ways of Allowing.”
Click this link: The Six Magic Ways of Allowing/
Thank you, Toni!
Love and Light!
Louis
Yes it sure is fantastic. Thanks for all your knowledgeable information
Great! Thank you, Toni! Thank you for sharing yourself with me! With love, Louis.
Dear Louis,
Thanks for posting such a common issue for all of us. Other People’s Moods.
I think that if a person realizes they are affected by others moods it may be a really useful litmus test to understand that they do not actually know who they are.
A series of 4 Shiatsu clients were actually the persons who initiated my calling as a Transformationist and Sacred Witness, as they gifted me with the spark of wisdom to launch a really interesting journey that continues every moment as foundation for my life purpose.
The topic of your blog is an important one as it is so prevalent an issue for many people, and
an issue very useful to the facilitator and client because it provides living proof of the effect of this phenomenon. The awakening of the consciousness within this realization can be life changing, especially, when they come to know that when they are affected so strongly by others moods, that they no longer know who they are.
What a huge opening. What a great opportunity.
I have downloaded your generous gift and read your outline. Interested to see in your work how it is that you establish the Authentic Person, and what tools skills perceptions and abilities are the foundation of the Authentic HUman. How the recognition of the need for transformation is derived? And how the person is prepared to co-facilitate the transformation with you?
Very excited to read your book.
Looking forward to communicating with you in the near future.
Namaste,
Felicia Mareels
So true, my hobby thinks something is wrong with me…I’m not chasing him anymore I feel a peace within…thank u for this book
Dear Audrey! I am happy to know that you have found peace within. Would this give you a new opening to reach out to your hobby? Love and light, Louis.
Thank you!! such wise words,… My problem though is that since I’ve started investing in my personal development, and perusing my passion by studying Life Coaching, I find it hard to repeat old habits of sitting and letting the other person stab me with hurtful words. For years I just let go, loved, , forgive and apologised even when I believed I did nothing wrong. Since I’ve learned to stop people pleasing and respect myself, and loving myself to be a good example for my daughter. I find it hard to sit still and listen to things that are untrue , cruel and unkind.
However I know, I must and I will to keep the peace, but do I get get a chance to respond ? Will my silence actually soften this persons heart?
Because In my situation most often I’m meant to not cry or show emotion…just sit and listen to outpouring of criticism or my faults and admit and acknowledge. Sharing my truth or my authentic feelings is seen as back answering and enrages this person even more.
I know I allowed it for many years but now I’m learning, I’ve changes and still evolving. I only what I humanly deserve. Kindness and respect , because I fear the constant hurt built up for 10’yeats will soon turn to resentment and I don’t want that. Please shine some light on my soul. Thank you !!!
Thank you so much Dr. Louis. Since I have started reading you. I am becoming a new person. Now I value myself.
Dear Zuleima,
I acknowledge you for your courage in taking on your journey of consciousness.
You have taken the first step, and now each day you will have a new experience of yourself – more in keeping with your true nature.
Don’t let anybody sway you from your journey.
I acknowledge your courage and your beauty of spirit.
I love you,
Louis.
Thank you very much for your book really has been a delight to read and realize that today I am who decides to ” take the helm of my life ” , and most importantly has been known that it is never too late to do so. Thank you very much for this knowledge
Dear Louise,
Your writing and information given on”someone’s mood” which may affect us in some way allows us to learn how to deal with it.
It is very useful and so practical to us.
Enjoy reading your article and thank you for issueing such a useful information to all of us.
Look forward to meeting with you one day.
Khobkhoon ka/ with best regards,
Suchana Chaloemtoem
Respected Sir
Thank you so much for making my vision clear.Today i am able to live my life in the way i feel andcwhich make me happy. Reading you post gives me confidence. Thanks again
Dear Ajita,
It is great to hear from you. I am happy to hear that reading my post inspired you to have clear vision.
I send you my love,
Louis.
Thank you sir,for your good suggestion. Gd night.
Thank you sir, for your good suggestion