My wife and I occasionally argue about her cooking. Frequently, we argue after I make a thoughtless comment or two. Since I am not a professional food critic, she responds with a bit of “chili,” which can cut me to the core. “It was just a well-meaning, innocent comment,” I think. “How could she say all those terrible things to me?”

Then A New Language for Life reminds me that she is not upsetting me; I’m upsetting myself. People or things don’t cause or have the power to upset me, but I do. In our birth language, we think that people and things cause us to be upset, but in living A New language for Life, you realize that isn’t the case. You are responsible for how you experience life, including your upsets and hurts.

Triggers Don’t Make You Upset

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